Family Therapy in Etobicoke & Online Across Ontario

For the patterns that started before any of you.

Therapy for parents and children together, blended families, and intergenerational households — a structured space to surface the dynamics and start changing them.

Illustration of a family of four — two parents and two children — gathered together in a warm domestic scene
Session
50–90 minutes
Starting at
$190
Format
In-person & virtual

What it is

Therapy that holds the whole system, not just the loudest voice in it.

For the patterns that affect all of you.

Family therapy is a structured space where members of a family work together with a registered clinician to understand the dynamics that have been quietly shaping daily life. Some patterns are obvious — the same argument, the same withdrawal. Others are inherited from generations back and only show up under stress.

The work fits the family. Sometimes everyone is in the room; sometimes parents alone; sometimes parents and one child. We figure out who needs to be present based on what's getting worked on.

Who it's for

A few of the things that bring families in.

You don't need everyone to agree it's a problem. If one person sees it, that's reason enough to start.

  • Parent-child conflict that won't shift. Fights that escalate fast, repeat often, and end in withdrawal or apology cycles. Nothing seems to actually resolve.
  • Blended-family stress. Step-parents, half-siblings, two households, layered loyalties — and no obvious roadmap for how it's all supposed to fit.
  • A teen whose behaviour has changed. Pulling away, acting out, struggling at school, not opening up. The kid you knew, hidden somewhere behind the kid you're seeing.
  • A transition no one's talking about. A death, a divorce, a move, an illness — and everyone coping differently, with the conversations everyone needs not happening.
  • Intergenerational expectation weight. Cultural or family-of-origin scripts that don't fit anymore — and the friction of being the generation that has to renegotiate them.
  • Communication that's broken down. Silence at the dinner table. Walking on eggshells. Or shouting matches that leave everyone exhausted.

How we work

Evidence-based tools, fit for a family system.

Family work draws on well-researched frameworks selected based on what's playing out in the room. Here's what shows up most often.

Structural

Structural-strategic

Mapping the family system: who has the loudest voice, who keeps the peace, who carries the worry.

EFT-F

Emotionally focused family therapy

Reaching the underlying emotion before the pattern repeats — so the cycle has somewhere different to go.

CBT

Cognitive behavioural (family-adapted)

Concrete tools the family can use between sessions — for triggers, communication, conflict de-escalation.

Narrative

Narrative therapy

Re-authoring the family story so it's not just one person's version of events that wins.

Cultural

Intergenerational & cultural dynamics

When the rules nobody wrote down are the loudest ones — naming them, working with them, sometimes rewriting them.

What to expect

The shape of the first few weeks.

Family therapy isn't linear, but the early pacing is predictable. Who needs to be in the room shifts as we go.

Week 0 — Free consult

A short call with whoever's reaching out

Usually a parent or both parents. Tell us what's been going on. Ask questions. See if we're a fit.

Week 1 — Intake

A first family session

Usually with whoever can come. We get the lay of the land — the dynamics, the goals, the pacing.

Weeks 2+ — The work

Finding the rhythm

Pacing varies. Some families come weekly for a stretch, then space out. We may meet with subsets between joint sessions.

Who provides this

Nitya and Japnam offer family therapy.

Both bring deep family-systems training, cultural fluency, and steady presence in difficult conversations.

See the full team
Nitya Sahni, RP(Q)
Nitya Sahni

RP(Q) · Clinician

Family dynamics, parenting, neurodivergence, complex relationships. From $190.

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Japnam Deol, MSW, RSW
Japnam Deol

MSW, RSW · Clinician

Trauma, family transitions, teens and parents. Online only. From $190.

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Common questions

Before you book.

More on the full FAQ.

Who needs to attend family therapy?

It depends. Sometimes the whole family. Sometimes parents alone. Sometimes parents and one child. We figure out who needs to be in the room based on what's getting worked on.

How long are family therapy sessions?

Sessions run 50–90 minutes depending on how many people are in the room and what we're working on. Longer sessions for full-family meetings; shorter for subset work.

What if one family member refuses to come?

Therapy can still work without them, often. Family-of-origin patterns can be worked on even with one or two members in the room. We talk through what's possible at the consult.

How is family therapy different from individual therapy for one of us?

Family therapy treats the system, not just the person. Individual therapy might feel like solving you; family therapy is solving the dynamic between you. Both can run alongside each other.

Will the therapist take sides?

No. The therapist's job is to hold the whole system — including the points of view that don't have a voice yet. No one gets ganged up on.

Is family therapy covered by insurance?

Many extended health plans cover RSW and RP services for family work. Coverage varies by plan. We don't direct-bill; we provide detailed receipts for reimbursement.

What if we're not a good fit?

The consult is where we figure that out. If we're not right for what your family needs, we'll say so honestly and point you toward someone who is.

Ready when you are

Start with a free consultation.

No paperwork, no commitment. A short conversation about what's been happening at home and whether we're a fit. Whoever's reaching out can call — others can come in later as we go.